Your Relationship Cannot Survive Secrets
Rarely will any relationship survive on secrets. A person’s lifestyle is clear after you date them only for a short while. It is not bad to remember though, that the person may actually hide some secrets he is not ready to share with you. Everything can be brought to the light if you feel that something is being unduly kept in the dark and you wonder what it is.
There may be many reasons as to why he has not let you know about his parents.First, he might want to avoid the topic in case you would like to meet his parents.Secondly, his relationship with the parents may be sour for reason he will not share with you yet.Whatever the reason is, you must establish where they come from and where they grew up so that you can continue with the relationship.
Do not be at peace if you don’t know his friends yet.Be careful not to be going out with someone who always talks about meeting his friends who seem to be virtual.Actually, he may be using the friends as proxy for covering someone important in his life or a bad habit. He may try to do this since his friends may not approve of you or you may not approve of them. No matter what the reason is, ensure that you use applicable force to know the truth which will prove very useful to you in the long run.
Although you may know what work he does, he never talks about it. What he does may be different from what he said he does or he may not be working at all.
If he fails to talk about his past relationships, consider carefully. Reasons may abound as to why he refrains from mentioning the names. The reason for this may be that they are still good friends. They may hate the memory of their past messed up relationships.Either way; you must be sure that he is not hiding something dangerous.
There may be pockets of darkness or secrets in the life of your new man.Although rare, you may be lucky, and he can merely be ashamed of the lack of his etiquette and eloquence skills.However, men who are serious in the relationship will show trust and will take the initiative to take you around to his home.He can also drop in so you can see his place.
Whenever you wonder why your new man is very secretive, simply look out for these signs and ensure he is not trying to keep you in the dark.